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3 tips to get out of that rut

8/15/2013

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We have all experienced the frustrations of being stuck in a rut, going round and round in circles with no clue how to break free. We ask ourselves the same questions, get the same answers, and take the same actions, in the end we can't see the wood for the trees, feel stressed and useless, and just want to stop the world and get off!
       “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”- Albert Einstein



So here are my top tips on how to move forward and create that change -

1) Focus on what you want

Be really clear and specific. Your goal may be something intangible to start with, like happiness or confidence, but give yourself something tangible to aim for, a new job, relationship, travel, a house, a hobby... be honest with yourself. What do you really want?
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2) Take action

When you are clear on your goal, identify what you need to do, who can help you, and take responsibility. Even if your first step is to tell others about your intentions so that you get guaranteed support, you must be prepared to make some changes and take action. What is your first step and when can you do that?

3) Remove negative emotions and limiting beliefs

Easier said than done? That's your decision. What are you thinking to create the feelings you have? What are you telling yourself to know that you can't do something? 
Ever listened to your music collection and noticed how different tunes evoke different memories and feelings? So choose the positive motivational one, play it first thing in the morning to get you moving... and get out of that rut!
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Angie Fisher link
8/29/2013 02:20:32 pm

Loved this post! Thank you for the amazing tips. Personally, I have recently started to really focus on #3.

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Sam
8/29/2013 06:15:57 pm

Thanks for sharing Angie, removing those negative thoughts and feelings that don't serve you are essential in moving forward - keep at it! x

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